Tips For Successful Dating - Part 4

Avoid Tricky Situations

Dating usually fun. However, it also can be dangerous or scary. The best way to have a good time is to avoid dangerous situations. When a relationship is starting, it is a good idea to do activities as a group. Many people double date or group date. That way, they are not alone with a person whom they are just getting to know.

It also is smart to do things in public places like restaurants, movie theaters, parks or skating rinks. It is a mistake to go to lonely or isolated areas on a date. That could put you in danger. Your date could force you to do something you do not want to do. Too often, girls are forced to have sex with their dates. This is called date rape. It is a serious problem that happens to teens and adult.

It also is a good idea NOT to drink alcohol or use other drugs during a date. The influence of alcohol and other drugs can make it hard to think clearly. You may end up doing something embarrassing or dangerous. You may throw up. You may say things you do not mean. You may end up having unprotected sex. Alcohol and other drugs can blur thinking and change behavior. It is best not to do things that make you lose control.

Fast Fact

Most rapes happen to people between the ages of 15 and 25. Most rapes between two people know each other.